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Broken Hearts and Shattered Dreams

The good news? Things can't possibly get worse.

On September 15th, 2000, I met a woman that changed my life. I fell in love in a way I never had before. There was one slight problem, however, I had a vasectomy in January that year, and couldn't sire any children for her; she left me, with my blessing, to find happiness and a family.

The "plan" was for her to have some children, and eventually we would get back together.

Years went by, and we both found other lovers.The idea that someday we would get back together seemed nearly impossible. Suddenly, 11 years later, after being hurt and abused by others, we met again; decided it was time to stop living in pain, and finally be together. She had her children now, and nothing stood in the way.

At first, it was great! I felt on top of the world!

Slowly, I began to notice certain problems. She was not the confident woman I knew, and had difficulty making decisions. I knew that she was physically and emotionally abused by he…